✓ Do's
Be Patient
Thai culture values patience. Rushing things or showing frustration is seen negatively.
Learn Basic Thai
Even "Sawadee krap" and "Khob khun" show respect and effort.
Show Respect to Elders
Always wai (bow) to her parents and use polite language.
Pay for Dates
Traditional expectation, especially early on. She may offer to split later.
Stay Calm
Never raise your voice or show anger publicly. "Jai yen" (cool heart) is valued.
Dress Well
Thais judge by appearance. Look neat, especially meeting her family.
✗ Don'ts
Don't Touch Her Head
The head is sacred in Thai culture. Never pat someone on the head.
Don't Point with Feet
Feet are considered low/dirty. Never point at people or touch things with your feet.
Don't Criticize the King
Lèse-majesté laws are serious. Never speak negatively about the monarchy.
Don't Get Drunk
Excessive drinking is seen as low-class. Stay in control.
Don't Rush Physical Contact
Public displays of affection are not common. Take it slow.
Don't Argue in Public
Causing a scene = losing face for both of you. Handle issues privately.
💡 Pro Tips
- • Remove shoes when entering homes and some shops
- • Bring a gift when visiting her parents (fruit, sweets, or flowers)
- • Learn to wai — the Thai greeting with palms together
- • Be generous but not flashy with money