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Aroy (อร่อย)
Literally means 'delicious'. In dating, it is sometimes used as a playful slang to describe someone attractive or a kiss/physical interaction. Use with caution as it can be very informal or slightly cheeky.
B
Buffalo (Kwai / ควาย)
The most famous animal in Thai dating culture. In slang, calling someone a buffalo implies they are stupid or gullible. Usually referenced in the common 'Sick Buffalo' scam where a girl asks for money for her family's buffalo.
Learn to spot the Sick Buffalo scam →Baht (บาท)
The official currency of Thailand. Understanding the local cost and typical 'allowances' is crucial for dating.
See typical dating costs in Bangkok →C
Chai (ใช่)
Yes. Understanding the nuances of 'Yes' in Thailand is key, as sometimes a 'Yes' can be given out of politeness (Greng Jai) even if the real answer is uncertain.
D
Doo-Lae (ดูแล)
To take care of. This is a vital word in Thai relationships. A man is often expected to 'Doo-Lae' his partner, which includes emotional, physical, and often financial support.
E
Isan / Esan (อีสาน)
The Northeast region of Thailand. A significant percentage of Thai women on dating sites come from this region. Isan culture, food, and dialect are distinct components of the Thai dating landscape.
Role of the Isan region in Thai dating →F
Farang (ฝรั่ง)
The general Thai term for a person of European/Western descent (Caucasians). In dating, being a 'Farang' comes with specific cultural expectations and sometimes a 'Farang Price' in certain environments.
Understanding Farang culture in Thailand →G
Gik (กิ๊ก)
A uniquely Thai relationship status that falls between a friend and a boyfriend/girlfriend. A Gik is someone you date or have a physical relationship with, but without the formal commitment or title of a spouse.
Greng Jai (เกรงใจ)
A core Thai cultural concept. It describes the feeling of being reluctant to impose on someone, ask for a favor, or do anything that might cause another person discomfort or 'loss of face'.
How Greng Jai affects your dating life →H
Hi-So (ไฮโซ)
Short for 'High Society'. Refers to wealthy, upper-class Thais who often frequent luxury malls, high-end sky bars, and exclusive clubs. Dating in Hi-So circles requires a very different approach and status cues.
Where to meet Hi-So singles in Bangkok →J
Jai Dee (ใจดี)
Kind-hearted. This is the most sought-after quality that Thai women look for in a partner. It encompasses generosity, patience, and a pleasant temperament.
Jai Yen (ใจเย็น)
Literally 'Cool heart'. It means to stay calm, patient, and composed. Losing your temper ('Jai Rorn') is considered a major failure of character in Thai culture.
K
Katoey (กะเทย)
Commonly known as 'Ladyboys' or transgender women. They are a visible part of Thai society. In dating, it's important to be respectful and aware, especially if you are specifically looking for (or trying to avoid) this demographic on apps.
Kwai (ควาย)
Thai for Buffalo. See 'Buffalo'.
L
Lanna (ล้านนา)
Refers to the ancient kingdom and culture of Northern Thailand (Chiang Mai, Chiang Rai). Lanna women are often praised for their gentleness and distinct dialect.
Dating in the heart of Lanna culture →M
Mia Noi (เมียน้อย)
Translates to 'Minor Wife'. Historically, polygamy was common among the elite. Today, it refers to a long-term mistress who is financially supported. It is socially taboo but still exists in certain circles.
Mook (มุข)
A joke or 'pun'. Thais love 'Mook Siao' (cheesy pick-up lines). Having a good sense of humor is one of the most attractive traits a Farang can have.
N
Nam Jai (น้ำใจ)
Literally 'Water of the heart'. It refers to kindness, generosity, and the act of giving without expecting anything in return. It is highly valued in romantic relationships.
P
Pee / Nong (พี่ / น้อง)
Honorifics based on age. 'Pee' is used for someone older (Big Brother/Sister), and 'Nong' for someone younger. In dating, a woman might call you 'Pee' as a sign of respect or deep affection.
R
Rian (เรียน)
To study. Many users on dating apps are university students. Understanding the schedule and expectations of 'Phu-Rian' (students) is important for younger daters.
S
Sin Sod (สินสอด)
The traditional Thai dowry paid by the groom to the bride's parents during marriage. It is a way of showing financial stability and 'paying' for the bride's upbringing.
Sia (เสี่ย)
A wealthy older man who provides financial support to a younger woman. Often associated with the 'Sugar Daddy' dynamic.
Sanuk (สนุก)
Fun. One of the most important aspects of Thai life. If dating isn't 'Sanuk', it likely won't last long.
T
Tee Rak (ที่รัก)
A common term of endearment meaning 'Darling', 'Honey', or 'Love'. It is a sign of a committed relationship.
W
Wai (ไหว้)
The traditional Thai greeting (palms together, slight bow). Performing a correct Wai shows respect to her parents and elders, which is critical for serious relationships.
V
VPN (Virtual Private Network)
An essential tool for digital privacy in Thailand. It allows you to access blocked websites (like adult content, usually blocked by the ICT Ministry) and protects your data on public Wi-Fi networks.
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