Red Flags to Watch For

Warning signs that something isn't right.

Legend: 🔴 Major red flag | 🟡 Warning sign

🔴

Asks for money (ANY amount)

Number one rule: never send money before meeting.

🔴

Refuses video calls

Real people have no problem video chatting.

🟡

Too good to be true

Model-level looks + desperate for you = suspicious.

🟡

Moves too fast

Declarations of love within days? Be skeptical.

🔴

Sob stories early on

Setting up to ask for money later.

🟡

Vague about job/life

Real people have details to share.

🟡

Only available at odd hours

May be talking to multiple targets.

🟡

Pushes for WhatsApp/LINE fast

Away from dating site moderation.

✅ Green Flags (Good Signs)

  • ✓ Has a verifiable job/education
  • ✓ Happy to video call anytime
  • ✓ Consistent stories and details
  • ✓ Never asks for money
  • ✓ Introduces you to friends/family
  • ✓ Takes things at a normal pace